42 N E W T I M E S H O L I D AY G U I D E Nov. 28th - Dec. 4th, 2024 phoenixnewtimes.com 8) Be a Calm and Present Host Your mood sets the tone for the gathering. Stay calm and avoid showing stress, even if something goes awry. If a dish doesn’t turn out as planned or you spill wine on the tablecloth, laugh it off. Guests will follow your lead. Remember to spend time with your guests. It’s easy to get caught up in serving and cleaning, but the most important part of hosting is connecting with the people you’ve invited. The Extras: Little Touches That Go a Long Way 9) Add Personalized Touches Personalization shows thoughtfulness. Handwritten place cards, custom napkin rings, or a small favor at each place setting can make guests feel extra special. Even a heartfelt toast before the meal can create a memorable moment. If you’re hosting overnight guests, prepare a small welcome basket for their room with toiletries, snacks, and a note listing the Wi-Fi password and morning coffee routine. 10) Plan for Entertainment While good conversation is often entertainment enough, having a few activities ready can add to the fun. Holiday trivia, a cookie decorating station, or a Secret Santa gift exchange can keep guests engaged. For a more low-key vibe, provide board games or set up a cozy area for guests to mingle. Staying Stress-Free: Take Care of Yourself 11) Accept Help Even the best hosts need help. Don’t hesitate to delegate tasks to family or friends. Whether it’s setting the table, refilling drinks, or keeping an eye on the kids, guests are often happy to pitch in. 12) Plan for Cleanup Set up a trash station and designate an area for dirty dishes to make post-party cleanup more manageable. If guests offer to help, accept graciously. The Aftermath: Reflect and Recharge Hosting is a gift, but it can also be exhausting. Once the party winds down, take a moment to reflect on the evening. What worked well? What could be improved for next time? Hosting is a skill, and each gathering is an opportunity to refine it. Take time to unwind and celebrate your hard work. Whether it’s a quiet cup of tea or a slice of leftover pie, give yourself a moment to enjoy the holiday magic you’ve created. Being a holiday host is no small feat, but it’s also one of the most rewarding ways to celebrate the season. With thoughtful preparation, a focus on connection, and a sprinkle of holiday magic, you can create an experience that leaves your guests feeling warm, welcomed, and grateful. After all, the true spirit of the holidays isn’t in the perfectly plated appetizers or the sparkling decorations—it’s in the laughter, stories, and love shared around your table.
